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82 | Over 40 and Unapologetic with Diva Tonight host | Carlene Humphrey

Dr. Brooks Demming Season 8 Episode 15

What if forty isn’t a cliff but a clean pivot? We sit down with Carlene, host of Diva Tonight, to unpack the messy, liberating middle of life when your back pops, your boundaries harden, and your priorities get honest. From surprise doctor visits to surprise clarity, she shares how health scares, a toxic workplace, and a pandemic reset pushed her to claim her voice and rebuild a career on her own terms.

We dig into real-world health advocacy, from navigating fibroids and low iron to the emotional calculus of trying for a baby in your forties. Carlene makes the case for second opinions, knowing your family history, and keeping receipts on your own symptoms. Then we switch gears to work: doubling workloads without noticing, the hidden cost of “being a team player,” and the courage to say no when the job starts to cost your life. Her safety net strategy, small wins, and commitment to consistency offer a blueprint anyone can use to restart a creative project or launch a podcast.

Collaboration becomes our power move. Instead of fighting over one seat, we trade introductions, share playbooks, and grow faster together. Carlene’s story—securing dream guests, pausing and returning stronger, planning seasons around what listeners actually need, shows how community outperforms clout. We close on self-compassion: catching negative self-talk, doing the internal work, and starting fresh tomorrow if today fell apart. If you’re craving purpose, stronger boundaries, and a kinder approach to improvement, this conversation will meet you where you are and help you move forward.

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